myFace!

This morning, during our "Team Period", one of the teachers [my former 8th grade science teacher =)] was sharing a story with regards to one of the sites, and blurted, "Yes, myFace!" Not realizing what he said, I chuckled because I knew what he meant and several moments later he realized his mistake.

Once upon a time, there were "wine and cheese" events or other such things that professionals used as a means of networking. These things do still exist. However, social networking has taken on a new meaning. Well, not so new. Most recently associated with Twitter, MySpace, Facebook, among others, social networking has been argued on many levels. There are issues, both positive and negative, that are latched on with the idea of "networking" on these sites. Like everything else in life, it serves a purpose with its pros and cons. The purpose for which you use it is entirely up to you. It is important to be educated in your decision as to whether or not you would like to use these sites as your means for social networking.

Yes, there lies the fear that this will take away from people's "social skills." Yes, this opens the doors for cyberbullying and pedophiles to virtually harm children, or even adults. Yes, employees (programs applied to, or other positions) may check out your profiles for a reference. Yes, everything you post will F-O-R-E-V-E-R be available, whether or not you like it.

But, you may just be able to reconnect with long, lost friends [family]. You may be able to remain connected with people that have moved far away or vice versa. You may promote your skills or talent with others. Or, you may just be able to share pieces [the pieces that you want to share] with people. Yes, you can maintain privacy. You have to make adjustments that are suitable to your liking.

In either direction, these are things that one must be self-conscious about. And, as I was looking and reading other peoples' posts on the subject, I must agree with Ron [thanks, Ron!]. You should have your own set of guidelines on the subject, should you decide to socially network on any one of these sites.

BE CAUTIOUS! Be sure to be aware of the pros and cons of these sites. Once you're aware, you can decide for yourself how you would like to make use of these sites. Be sure not to post pictures that you wouldn't want a possible employer having access to [likewise, do not take part in pictures that may be posted, if that is the case.] Decide how much information you'd like to have out for the world to see. Be mindful and cautious, of course, of how much your children are looking at [or could one day have access to].

And of course, if possible, do not negate others of face-to-face time with you! Do not let these sites become "myFace!"